Author: danithedreamgirl

Monday Confessions…

Normally Monday is blocked out for showing others how to become a blogger, but instead, I am going to do something that some bloggers stray away from…making it personal.  The past month has been craaaaazy!  I’ve seen death, I’ve seen sadness, I’ve seen friendships change, I’ve seen betrayal, I’ve seen families being torn apart, I’ve seen struggle, I’ve seen pain.  There were small sprinkles of fun and laughter, but mostly just a whirlwind of THINGS!  Some of them were my things and some were not my things.  A part of my journey to fulfilling my life’s purpose isn’t just filled with fun and exciting blog posts; there are major lessons and tests that I experience along the way.  When I put everything together, it becomes the sum of a greater whole…each piece of the puzzle playing its own role.  I firmly believe that everything that occurs in this lifetime is a lesson to be learned.  Regardless of the trials that I go through, one consistent lesson that I always come away with is that life is so darn precious.  It is so important to recognize/right your wrongs, to appreciate your blessings and to forgive others even when they don’t forgive you.  I’m not afraid of people seeing my bad days because I am who I am.  I’m in constant growth and change and perfection has never been claimed.  I have done plenty of things that I am not proud of, but one thing is for sure…I can always humble myself enough to recognize/right my wrongs, appreciate my blessings and to ALWAYS forgive (even myself).  Maybe this will be just another post that you read today, but I’m hoping that it will help someone along their journey and to be a reminder that you may be in the midst of your storm, but there will always be sunny days again.

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***New Music*** Eve is Back with Her New Single, “She Bad Bad”

People always doubt if Philly has any artists, well…here you go!  The Philly native, Eve, drops a new single from her upcoming album, Lip Lock.

http://soundcloud.com/eatinghiphop/eve-she-bad-bad

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What Will Your Weekend Bring?!

I have the luxury of being able to visit family this weekend (yay!)…that means seeing my parents, my cousins, my aunts and uncles and my best friends!  To add a splash of fun in there, I’m going to see Sean Paul perform live for the first time ever!  I’ll be hitting the road and driving up north in a short while and I cannot wait.  What will your weekend bring you? Any big plans?  Either way, have fun and enjoy your time (near or far)!  In the hustle and bustle of life it’s easy to let time slip away, but make this weekend different. Go out with friends, spend time with mom or dad…whatever it is, ENJOY and be PRESENT!

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Chris Brown Openly Admits Loving Two Women! Dang…

Soooo, I really don’t get into the gossip stuff on my site, but when it involves one of my favorite artists, it’s hard not to be like, “dang!”  Lately, there have been a lot of rumors flying around that Chris Brown and Rihanna are back together (an issue in itself), but I came across this video and I think it can shed some light on things…after all, he finally admits to loving two women.  Check it out and let me know your thoughts:

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Don’t Be a Craigslist Victim!

I knew there was a reason why I stayed away from the Classifieds mega site Craigslist.com.  I learned the hard way that there are a lot of folks just trying to trick you into stealing your money.  So this is what happened!  I’ve been looking for a new place to live, within a reasonable price, and with enough space for a roommate.  UGH!  If that’s not enough stress, this area (DC) is super freaking expensive, so I branched out and started looking for houses/condos for rent.  This is where the nightmare began!  Check out my step-by-step mistakes:

1.  I used Craigslist to look for a legitimate apartment/rental property listing.

2.  I was eager, impatient and “trusting” because I needed a place A.S.A.P.

3.  I didn’t set up a throw-away email account for inquiries; I used my personal account (sad face).

Fast forward! I sent inquiries to about 4 properties in the area and let me tell you…the responses that I got were normal.  The first response I got was for a house for rent in NOVA for $900 a month.  To me it was a sweet deal!  This was the first email I got:

Thanks for your email and interest in renting my apartment, the property is in a secured neighborhood fully furnished with all necessary amenities. It has a very large bedrooms with spacious in built wardrobe, living room with dining area, 2 bathroom, dishwasher, washing machine, and clothes dryer.  The home comes with two parking spots, a storage unit where you can deposit my furniture (if you don’t like it and you want use your furniture). Pets allowed. The home is in perfect living condition and everything is included (water, electricity, Internet, cable, parking, air conditioning, fireplace, dishwasher, garbage) in the rent. Property is available for move in at the moment but unfortunately, I would not be present in person to show you the property due to my recent job transfer to Brooklyn, NY and I do not have a local representative to show the place due to my transfer so if you are interested in renting the property and willing to work with me despite my absence kindly get back to me ASAP so I can forward the Rental Application and the steps in renting my home.  Feel free to reach me on my Cell Phone # (614) 238-8625.  Regards, Janet E. Jusino

RED FLAGS I GOT AFTER READING THIS:

1. The amount of typos in the email!

2. They were located in NY and couldn’t show the property.

3. There were no photos of the interior.

4. I called the number and the voice-mail was for a man with an African accent (the sender’s name was “Janet”).

5. I sent two emails and there was no response; I finally asked for photos and was sent two copies of the rental agreement and that was it.

There were a string of emails after this one, but the next red flag was the fact that they wanted me to send rent payments to their Western Union Account (NEVER DO THIS!!!).  By this time I realized that this was a fake listing.  To confirm this, I clicked on the original Craigslist ad and the following disclaimer popped up, “This ad has been flagged for removal.”  The other listings I inquired about came back with the same story.  The owner was relocated for work, had no pictures of the interior and two had the SAME email response letting me know that they were relocated in West Africa.

I tell you this so that you can BEWARE!  I know people who use Craigslist with no issues, but I will no longer use this site for ANYTHING!

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