B.B.M. (Become a Blogger Mondays) Which Site is Right for You?!

Welcome back to B.B.M.!  Last week I discussed how to decide if blogging was right for you and seeing as though you’ve come back for a second week, that means you’re ready to begin your blogging journey (which makes me so happy).  So, let’s jump right in and get down to business!

Of course the next big step is to find a site to call home.  Now, if you are anything like I was, you will have no clue how to make this decision.  Here are the steps that I took in finding a site that was just right for me:

1. I opened my mouth to ask questions.

Sometimes it can be intimidating to ask the most basic questions, but you will find that it is often the best option.  Ask around and see what other bloggers are doing.  You may even find it helpful to ask people with a tech background (which is what I did) to see which sites are user-friendly and offer the best features.

2. Google became my friend!

Pretty much anything that you need to research can be found online…information is right at your fingertips.  Any and everything that I could think of, I researched, i.e. types of blogs, did I like blogs with or without a lot of pictures?, did I skip over sites with a lot of writing?, colors, etc.  By looking at what others are doing, you can really begin to shape ideas for your site, which means you can target one that is right for you.

3. I was honest about my likes and dislikes.

While you continue your research, pay attention to what catches your eye (and not just the obvious details).  It may make sense to ask a friend if you can take a “tour” of their site to see how it works “behind the scenes”.  There are certain features that I like about my site, that I didn’t find elsewhere.  For example, I love that WordPress is really “professional” and up-to-date.  They take the time to help new users and they constantly update layout themes, add-ons, widgets, etc. for the regulars who want something new.  If I have any questions, I can always ask a WordPress staff member and I can also search through forums for answers to ALL of my questions.  Of course, other sites offer things that I don’t get with WordPress, but when I weigh the pros and cons, I know I’ve chosen wisely.  So, before you go signing up, make sure you are critical of your options!

4. Just make a choice…I did!

If after all of this, you still aren’t sure which site is best for you, then just pick ONE!  What’s the worse that can happen? You don’t like it?  TIP: When I first signed up with WordPress, I didn’t make my site live right away.  I played around with different layout themes and I practiced writing new posts.  I learned how to do the simple things like loading an image or creating tags (something you’ll learn more about).  Have fun with the decision-making process!

I hope you’ve found this helpful and be sure to come back next Monday when I discuss: What the Heck Should I Blog About?

ILLUMINATING Blogger Award!

I had the honor of receiving another award for my blog, YIPPEE!!!  It completely caught me by surprise, being as though I didn’t know the person who nominated me.  That just goes to show, PEOPLE ARE PAYING ATTENTION TO ME and I LOOOOVE attention.  I am the recipient of the Illuminating Blogger Award and it came with this lovely message:

I love reading your site so I’ve nominated you for the Illuminating Blogger Award for illuminating, informative blog content. You can check out the details at my site …

What an amazing surprise, especially since I work SO hard on my site! This really supports the old adage that hard work truly pays off.  So, what now?  The rules are simple:

1. The nominee should visit the award site (http://foodstoriesblog.com/illuminating-blogger-award/) and leave a comment indicating that they have been nominated and by whom. (This step is so important because it’s the only way that we can create a blogroll of award winners).
2. The Nominee should thank the person that nominated them by posting & including a link to their blog.
3. Share one random thing about yourself in your blog post.
4. Select at least five other bloggers that you enjoy reading their illuminating, informative posts and nominate them for the award.
5. Notify your  nominees by leaving a comment on their blog, including a link to the award site (http://foodstoriesblog.com/illuminating-blogger-award/).



If you are one of the lucky bloggers that I nominate for this nifty award, be sure to follow the above list.  Congrats to all fellow recipients and happy blogging!  Feel free to snag this image for your post as well!

Teamwork Makes the DREAM work!

Nowadays, it’s a surprise when I decide to do a personal post for my lovely readers, but I think it’s a great time to provide an update on my life!  For starters, I’m taking each day as it comes and whether it’s a good or bad experience, I can take lessons from it all.  My birthday came and went in a flash and although I didn’t celebrate it as I had originally planned, my family and friends managed to come together and share in my special day.  For those that are not aware, I had a VERY traumatic thing happen to me and without focusing on every single, saddening detail I will just say this: A complete stranger found a way to change my outlook on life by physically harming me in a way that I had never experienced.  What lessons came of it?  I will never underestimate the intentions of others and I will not ASSume that all men know not to hit a woman.  Another lesson?  That I have some of the BEST friends  and family in the world who have been helping me process everything.  Constantly checking on me, being a shoulder to cry on and a set of ears to listen. My TEAM is amazing!


Despite this life-changing event, I have managed to still push forward and take small strides in the right direction.  It hasn’t been easy, but what about life IS easy?  With that said, I reached out to the creator of Shipwrecked on Fabulous Island and wanted to have my pictures taken (she does amazing work, check her out)…WHY? Because I’m building my portfolio for another major move that I am making, but can’t really disclose at the moment!  Aside from the process of having my photos done, it was a chance for me to FEEL pretty inside and out.  My CONFIDENCE was on point and it was just what I needed (FYI, the remaining photos will be published in a separate post)!  As if the past few months haven’t been busy enough, I’m working on my life plan.  I’ve written business plans in the past, but never a LIFE plan to map out where I am, where I want to go and where I want to end up.  I will keep all of you updated on how that goes!


My goal isn’t to bore you so this is it for now, BUT it is extremely important for me to provide updates on where my journey is taking me…afterall, that is the whole premise of Danithedreamgirl.com!  I’m determined to turn my DREAMS into a reality, while helping others along the way.  Keeping this motto in mind, I will continue to share stories of strangers and friends alike, in order to inspire and foster a change among our generation!  If you want your journey, testimony, or even career highlighted in the Dreamworld, reach out and I’d be more than happy to make it happen!  Remember: TEAMWORK MAKES THE DREAM WORK!

***If you are interested in having your very own photo session, please send all inquiries to danithedreamgirl@gmail.com and I will send you my photographer’s contact information. Serious inquiries only!!!***